Free, confidential men's groups meeting regularly across Nelson — a space to connect, grow, and be heard. Open to all men, no experience required.
All men interested in this work are invited to attend the International Men's Open Day event, from 11-5 on 14 November at Victory Community Centre in Nelson. This is free event for all men. Join us for a relaxed day of workshops, speakers, panel talks, food, music, and connection — all created by men, for men. Learn about men's groups with demo sharing circles. A new mentored group will form from those who are interested.
A space where men meet honestly, speak what is real, and support each other beyond masks and performance.
CORE Circle is for men who feel called to do the inner work, not alone, but in brotherhood. The intention is to create a grounded space to meet what is hidden, speak honestly, and return to integrity through the body.
The structure is inspired by the ManKind Project, somatics, shadow work, and a deep combined experience of men's work spanning several continents.
C - courage to face what is true
O - ownership of choices and patterns
R - responsibility to repair and grow in integrity
E - embodiment into lived action
As our group name suggests we are a crew of men sailing a ship...mostly in uncharted water, navigating the currents of change and transition with curiosity and openness as our compass…pointing us in the direction of self discovery.
A relatively new group of men we are, the majority from differing countries and cultures offering a diversity of views and life experience while valuing and honouring the indigenous gifts that Aotearoa brings to us.
Younger and older, our age difference currently spans 6 going on 7 decades of journeying.
We are united in our desire for genuine connection and deep, meaningful conversation while attempting to avoid putting on fronts so we can lean into the heart of what matters to us, assured of a confidential space for sharing and focused listening as we consciously navigate our lives through stormy weather.
Juicebumps is a dedicated circle of men, formed from the merging of three separate groups. Most of us have sat in circle for five years or more. Our ages range from the 30s to 60s, and we come from North America, Europe, Australia and Aotearoa New Zealand. Our rich group culture comes out of the Rotoiti and Tui traditions, with an added dose of Essentially Men embodied emotional experience, and dash of Mankind Project warrior energy.
We do deep work (we bring the juice). We go well past surface story, and we don’t let each other off the hook. We get out of our heads and into our bodies, and we challenge and invite each other to feel what’s really going on. We trust our intuitions, practising giving and receiving high levels heart-centred support, and we expect every man in the circle to be an active participant.
Eye contact, movement, hand holding, physical touch, tears and laughter are part of how we work. If you’re not willing to be open-hearted and vulnerable, this isn’t the group for you.
Our group was formed 12 years ago because the original Nelson men's group was full. This is a very committed group and very engaged in events like the Rotoiti retreats etc. Of the original members there are only 3 left but we haven't had anyone leave since before Covid. There is a lot of experience in the group so we trust each other to challenge our stories.
Our group was established in 2024 and meets fortnightly on Monday evenings in Nelson.
We're a diverse gathering of men from varied backgrounds and experiences, ranging in age from our 20s to 60s. What unites us is a shared commitment to personal growth, learning from one another, and showing up to support our fellow members
We come together to share honestly about our lives in a safe, non-judgmental environment where every man’s voice is heard and valued.
New members are warmly welcomed. We'll explain how things work and help you settle in.
We are a ritual sharing group, originating in the 1990’s, with an evolving membership. We are actively committed to our own personal growth, and are supportive of new men and new groups.
We meet fortnightly, with member’s hosting the circle in their homes. Each member shares what is currently important in their lives. We then have a break, individual chats over food, and then a topic, each sharing how that moves them. Feedback is important and valuable.
Not sure if a men's group is for you?
There's no obligation and there may be a group closer than you think.
Check out "What is a men's group?", or...
If you are interested in joining a group (or checking one out causally) get in touch with the group directly — using the contact info at the bottom of each listing.
If the group has space, you will be invited to attend a meeting to check it out. The group will welcome you, and will explain and demonstrate how things work.
If more than one group exists in your area, feel free to try two or more to find the best long-term fit for you.
